Success

The Path to a Better Life

How your mindset and daily actions lay the foundation for your life. Your success or failure begins with the decision of whether you take control of your destiny or leave it to others.

All starts in mind

Situation:

Many people are dissatisfied with their situation. They want a better life. Most people keep doing the same thing and expect better results. That's stupid. How is that supposed to work? Others give their best and work harder. But that usually doesn't help much.

Solution:

Sorry for the bad news: Your kind of thinking and your actions have brought you exactly where you are now!!! No politics is to blame, and no god will help you. So start helping yourself  otherwise keep quiet and stay where you are. What you need is a completely NEW way of thinking. More thoughtful. More focused.  More intense and COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. Cleverer!

For clever people:

Stupid people will stop reading now, because this isn't a recipe for getting rich through hope. Even spending days talking about it with like-minded people, crying, complaining, and praying won't help. Why? It's said: Help yourself first, THEN God will help you.

Smart people will say:

“It will be tedious, exhausting, but it helps (very SLOWLY). However, I need some help as an inspiration and motivation. Let's start together because it is for MY better Life.DO IT NOW!”

Good decisions

Situation:

Many people act unconsciously, automatically, as always, and the results are the same and the same. (No escape without change)

Check:
How many decisions do you make in a day?

Result:
There are many thousands every day.

Please think about:
When do you get up? Do you get up immediately when you wake up or do you stay lying down for a while (for how long)? Which foot do you put down first? Do you walk quickly or slowly to the bathroom? How much toothpaste do you use? What type of toothpaste do you use? How long do you brush your teeth? Do you brush quickly or slowly? Is your toothbrush hard or soft? Do you rinse your mouth afterward? Do you use mouthwash? (This are 11 decisions - into the first minutes of your day only)

Every simple decision has its consequences!

Every big or huge decision has its consequences!!!!!!!

The sum of all decisions is reflected in the quality of your life.

Solution:

Become more mindful. Consider the consequences of your decision. If you're happy with it, the decision was fine for the moment.

If you're not happy with the outcome, start making different decisions. Best time is NOW!!

Good decision leads to good results. Bad decisions lead to bad results!

(Attention it is a little tricky: sometimes result looks good at the first look but later it turns to bad and reverse.

For clever people:

Smart people constantly reflect on themselves. It's crucial to be honest with yourself.

REMEMBER:

You can lie to everyone else, but you can't lie to yourself.

Priorities

Situation:

Too many people have not learned that CLEAR priorities lead to good decision. Too many people decide without making a CLEAR decision. They decide intuitive, like ever, without using brain, only reacting on first feelings or first idea. …and results are the same like ever.

Solution:

Each alternative has its advantages and disadvantages. Before making a decision, the pros and cons should be compared and evaluated. A written overview provides clarity and clarity.

Clear priorities lead to better decisions. Better decisions lead to a better life.

VERY IMPORTANT:
Please learn: to decide to make no decision has exactly the same consequences like the decision for no change. A clear decision is much more better because you can feel that it is YOU who can start a change!!!!

For clever people:

Smart people research and find decision-making aids and success strategies online, e.g. the Disney strategy, the Parteto Priciple, unpleasant first strategy and many other options will help you to make clearer decisions.

Divide a piece of paper with a line down the middle. Write the advantages on one side and the disadvantages on the other side of the line. This creates an overview. However, the weighting of the individual advantages and disadvantages depends on the individual.

Love

Situation:

Many people spread their concentration. They watch TV, talk, play with mobile, all at the same time….The result: Many people do things somehow. Their minds are elsewhere, and the results are poor. Then they talk up the results, ignoring that level of result was very poor, or they move on to the next thing... and this, too, is done somehow.

Solution:

Be concentrated 100% on what you are doing at the moment. Stay with 100% concentration till task is SUCCESSFUL at the end.

Please understand: You don't actively do anything you haven't decided on beforehand.

So when you decide, do things with FOCUS, ENTHUSIASM, and PERSISTENCE.

In short: If you decide to do something, do it with LOVE... or DON'T. (There will be no good outcome in between.)

For clever people:

Really smart people practice this recommendation... not just any way, but to perfection and then they continue to improve.

Doing something is like shooting a bow and arrow. 100% concentration helps you achieve your goal.

REMEMBER:

You can lie to everyone else, but you can't lie to yourself.

Creativity

Situation:

Many people cling to traditions, but tradition doesn't create a better future. Tradition is important. Therefore, tradition must be continually re-examined to determine whether it is still relevant today. A tradition without real meaning is what it is. It is a tradition without meaning. No meaning means: It's high time for a change.

Solution:

Creativity is thinking out of the box.

Creativity is thinking in terms of solutions.

Creativity is the key to a better life.

For clever people:

Train your creativity. Make research about creativity and how to train it.

Stop finding excuses and reasons why it is not possible.

Start to find working solutions!! (use time meaningful)

BE SURE:

One success is much better than 1 million of excuses.

Winners

Situation:

The biggest mistakes in life are following first idea and  giving up after a single attempt.

Most people find reasons why it's impossible and settle for that.

But how can you so often settle for failures and excuses when you're actually not satisfied with the outcome or your own life?

Solution:

Start by not being satisfied with the FIRST result.

Look for better solutions before you decide. Always!

Be persistent, creative, and smart at doning. Anytime!

For clever people:

Keep always in mind:

Excuses and apologies are for losers.

Finding workable solutions is for winners.

Make your own decision: Do you want to be e loser or do you want to be a winner?

It is your life!!!  and this decision is the decision for continuing on same level or for a better life:

Summary in short:

Losers find excuses!

Winners find solutions!

What kind of that are you???

Doing

Situation:

In Uganda, it's extremely popular to talk about success, preferably millions and billions.

Others pray for a better life. Still others cry and moan.

Why doesn’t it get better? Why doesn't ANYTHING of that help?

Many people use speech to convince themselves that they deserve a better life, but no matter what they say, it doesn't just happen.

Solution:

Doing makes the Difference!!!!

Only creative, thoughtful, 100 % concentrated and committed action helps.

Make clear and good decisions.

Then start DOING! Best time is NOW!

For clever people:

Stop taking. Start listening and learn:

Talking is manipulation.  

Doing is real!!!!

BE SURE:

One success is much better than 1 million of excuses.

Trust

Situation:

A little cheating is normal. If you don't negotiate well, it's your own fault. That's the reality. Interestingly, many Ugandans are Christians, but what God wrote in the Ten Commandments is hardly ever put into practice. The Seventh Commandment states: "You shall not steal." This means: You shall not take anything that belongs to another.

Solution:

Trust is built by being honest and doing what you say you're doing. (In many countries, you shouldn't open a business without trust and reputation, as word gets around quickly and you'll soon go bankrupt.)

Yes, many people in Uganda are rich because they are dishonest, but everything comes to an end. Therefore, anyone who has acquired their wealth dishonestly must be careful that another dishonest person doesn't take it away. Equal rights for all:

A saying is: In long term: Honesty is the best policy

For clever people:

Truly smart people realize: If you're honest, you can sleep soundly.

Information for the dishonest: There's a risk that someone is even more dishonest than you are. And believing that your own dishonesty is enough to ensure long-term success is rather naive.

Sooner or later there will be a person that is more dishonest and more greedy like you.

Character

Situation:

Most people are good, helpful, and polite.

Some are false, lying, stealing, and cheating.

We can't change the world quickly.

We can only change the world slowly.

Solution:

Be your children a good idol.

For clever people:

If you want a change to better:

Think about: What DIFFERENT is to do to get it. Are you ready for that?

Don’t start with first idea.

Think about a working solution and find a way to get your goal in a smart and fair (legal) way.

Start acting NOW!!! The first step is one step closer to your goal.

Continue even it gets hard! Be persistent.

Be focused 100% on your doing. Be always open minded for better alternatives, too.

Don’t give up too fast, but recognize if you need another way to reach your goal.

Make many little milestones to your big goal and celebrate every little success.

At the end all will be fine – if it is not fine, it is not the end.

Find your own way and your way to a better life starts NOW!!!